Wedding Bells? You Can Both Choose Your Own Surnames Now

“A family name holds the music of generations – it’s the first inheritance we receive.” (Attributed to Irish poet-philosopher John O’Donohue)

The Constitutional Court has just confirmed (with some significant adjustments) last year’s High Court ruling that both partners in a marriage have equal rights to choose their surname.

Previously, a woman – and only a woman – could choose when marrying to take her spouse’s surname, or to retain her own surname, or to assume a double-barrelled surname (her own surname with her husband’s surname).

However, if a man wanted to do the same (to adopt his wife’s surname or a double-barrelled surname) he had to apply formally to the Department of Home Affairs (DHA) and provide “good and sufficient reason” for wanting to change. The problem with that is that the reason had to be related to “a change in the marital status of a woman” – an impossible ask for men.

A tale of two couples

The Constitutional Court, and the High Court before it, grappled with this issue via applications from two couples whose attempts to depart from the “only women can choose” rule had been thwarted by the existing wording of the Births and Deaths Registration Act.

The couples’ reasons for wanting to depart from the norm will ring a bell with many. One couple wanted their new family to bear the wife’s maiden name as it symbolized her connection to her parents, who had died when she was young. The other wanted both spouses to use a combined (double-barrelled) name so that the wife’s maiden name, which is important to her, was not lost.

Our apex court has now confirmed that this unequal treatment was unconstitutional because it discriminated on the basis of gender, infringing on their rights to equality and dignity.

So, what are your choices now?

In a nutshell, the Court’s order employs gender-neutral language to ensure that everyone, regardless of gender or type of marriage, now has the same automatic rights when it comes to assuming a new surname.

Although the declaration of invalidity is suspended for 24 months to enable Parliament to either amend existing legislation or to pass new legislation, the Court’s ruling includes the provision that in the interim everyone can, as of right and without needing DHA authority:

• After marriage, take their spouse’s surname or, having taken it, resume a previous surname.

• After marriage, divorce or the death of a spouse, resume a previous surname or create a double-barrelled surname.

Any other surname changes (including changes to your children’s surnames) still require application to DHA.

To avoid any confusion, it’s a good idea to tell the marriage officer before you marry what names you’ve chosen so the correct choices appear in the marriage register and on your marriage certificate.

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