KVV | Note from Directors: Loneliness in the crowds

Recently, we heard of a woman whose daughter tragically committed suicide. They were a loving family with a close relationship with each other. Yet, without going into too much detail, the terror of rejection was too much to face. Another such incident was of a father who just lost hope and committed suicide. These are only two examples of many such tragic incidents I am personally aware of.

Statistically, seventy-eight percent of children in America feel lonely. Lonely in the sense of not being seen or feeling invisible, despite the fact that we live in an age where instant connection is a reality.

My point is this: never in history was connectedness with each other in a significant way so important as today.

A Harvard study recently found that happiness is closely connected with faith, family, friends, and meaningful work.

A gentleman from Pakistan, who cuts my hair, testified to the following:

He is a Christian, and in Pakistan the whole family, no matter their age, lives together in one big house. He testifies that this togetherness is seen as a blessing. They sit at one table and eat out of one pot prepared by his mother. He saves most of his money and sends it home to ensure the whole family benefits from his salary.

This testimony opened my eyes to the truth that true happiness is connected to faith, family, friends, and meaningful work.

I do not say that there is only one way this could happen, like my Pakistani friend testified to their environment.

The point is that we need to be present in the moment with our spouses, children, and those dear to us. Make them feel seen and appreciated. Help them to overcome the fear of rejection. Love them unconditionally, just the way they are.

Roy Kapp | Director KVV Inc. Attorneys